Love. Yourself. First.

Too many times in relationships we have one member giving far more than the other. This is OK as long as it is temporary, but once it becomes a routine thing then the relationship may need to be reevaluated. The biggest problem with giving more than you are receiving is that sooner or later complacency starts to kick in from the other member, and we all know that complacency in a relationship will eventually stop growth. A easy way to fix this is to love yourself first. Try not to forget all of the things that you want out of a relationship and what makes you happy. If none of those things are being met, then maybe it's time you throttle back on the giving. Once your partner notices it they will either do one of two things, They will immediately address the situation or they will continue as if nothing ever changed. If your lover does the latter, then it may be time to look deeper into the relationship and see what is going on. If they do attempt to address the issue then this is your best time to express your feelings about things and let your partner know how you feel. Love yourself first. because if you don't love yourself first, then you can never truly love someone else.