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Cheat Insurance.

As immoral or unfortunate as it is, men cheat. But as with everything else, there is a right way to do the wrong thing. Usually that doesn't happen because us guys think that we wont get caught doing it. There is Car insurance for Cars, Home insurance for homes, and Life insurance for life. Why not have Cheat insurance for.....cheating? IF you are going to cheat on your girl, make sure you have: Your own Place. Your own Car. You know how to fight (in case she has brothers). Your own finances. You pay all of your own bills. You can afford child support (if yall have kids). AND MOST IMPORTANTLY: The person you cheat on her with is an upgrade. Both Physically and financially. While none of this will guarantee total success, it will make the repercussions of your infidelity much more manageable.

Cheat Insurance.

As immoral or unfortunate as it is, men cheat. But as with everything else, there is a right way to do the wrong thing. Usually that doesnt happen because us guys think that we wont get caught doing it. There is Car insurance for Cars, Home insurance for homes, and Life insurance for life. Why not have Cheat insurance for.....cheating? IF you are going to cheat on your girl, make sure you have: Your own Place. Your own Car. You know how to fight (in case she has brothers). Your own finances. You pay all of your own bills. You can afford child support (if yall have kids). AND MOST IMPORTANTLY: The person you cheat on her with is an upgrade. Both Physically and financially. While none of this will guarantee total success, it will make the repercussions of your infidelity much more manageable.

7 reasons why you shouldn't put your relationship on facebook.

1. It Gives Haters and Frenemies an opportunity to “prey” on your significant other – Once you upload an “usie” and you’ve tagged your “bae” your followers go follow and friend request your new boo. Now they are looking through photos of him/her making an assessment of who they are, trying to find something bad to say about them and finally some may go to the extent of flirting with them online to try and get them to engage! 2. It Makes Public What Is Meant To Be Private – In my opinion romance is one of those things that is meant to be private! Of course, to each their own, but it just seems that once you change your relationship status the force of Facebook is against you. 3. It promotes drama! Yes the drama, it gets deep and messy! – Even if you only have a few Facebook friends, You never know who is friends with your Facebook friends or who might take a screenshot of something you post and share it. I knew Facebook was a hot mess when I seen an old friend from my childhood posting photos with my friend from high school’s baby daddy. I didn’t pick up the phone to talk about it but later on in my timeline the two girls were going back and forth! Needless to say, if she would have kept her relationship off of Facebook they may have made it! ‪#‎dointoomuch‬ 4. It invites your ex’s into your new relationship – Once you put your new relationship online your ex’s are bound to catch wind. Yea, of course you may want to rub it in their face especially if you’re doing better. But do you really want your ex inboxing your new significant other? Do you really want to taint your new relationship with that type of negativity and chaos? 5. It Can Cause a Competitive Element In Your Relationship – A friend of mine got into an argument with his girlfriend because she claimed he didn’t post as many pictures of them together on his page as she did. Really? 6. It can harm your following – If the primary use of your page is to promote your career (like mine) your supporters may have mixed feelings about you posting “usies” with your new boyfriend or girlfriend. I have even seen up and coming artists and athletes lose followers over this. Let’s just be honest, especially for artists, a lot of your fans don’t care to see all of that mushy stuff! 7. It creates a major dilemma if you break up – Do you keep the pics up or do you take them down? Now you have a permanent online footprint that you were with this person. How do you explain them to the next person you are with (trust they will ask about them!) and finally, how tacky is it to showcase your new relationship every 6-12months? What? I’m just sayin

Love. Yourself. First.

Too many times in relationships we have one member giving far more than the other. This is OK as long as it is temporary, but once it becomes a routine thing then the relationship may need to be reevaluated. The biggest problem with giving more than you are receiving is that sooner or later complacency starts to kick in from the other member, and we all know that complacency in a relationship will eventually stop growth. A easy way to fix this is to love yourself first. Try not to forget all of the things that you want out of a relationship and what makes you happy. If none of those things are being met, then maybe it's time you throttle back on the giving. Once your partner notices it they will either do one of two things, They will immediately address the situation or they will continue as if nothing ever changed. If your lover does the latter, then it may be time to look deeper into the relationship and see what is going on. If they do attempt to address the issue then this is your best time to express your feelings about things and let your partner know how you feel. Love yourself first. because if you don't love yourself first, then you can never truly love someone else.

The Other Woman/ Man

10 Telltale signs that you may be the other woman/ man. Now these aren’t definite but they sure do apply to almost all other woman/ man characteristics. You may be the other woman/man if:

- He/She only answers their phone certain times of the day.
- They never invite you to their place
- They tend to dodge questions about their past.
- They only show up at funny times (early morning, late night) and never sleep over.
- They don’t let you talk to their parents or when they do they refer to you as “friend”.
- Public dates are very far and few.
- They tell you to “be quiet” when they are on the phone or go to a private area to talk.
- While talking to you the phone suddenly “hangs up” and they don’t call you back for hours.
- Almost NO commitment.
- Holidays (Christmas, Valentines Day, etc.) go by and you don’t hear from them.

-Z.I.

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Why Most Relationships Don't Work

The sad fact is that when people think that they have found the “love of their life” they have only invested time and energy into getting to know and like the “personality” of their lover and not their “character”. Here is a perfect example. How many times have you heard people say “oh, he/she has a great personality”? Do you ever hear people say “oh he/she has excellent character”? Probably not which is why most relationships go south soon after the introduction phase is over. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said it best. You should judge people by the content of their character. If you can’t tell the difference between the two just remember that “personality” is how a person behaves when they are in public and “character” is how a person behaves in private, when no one is around. And since we all are in private more than in public, a person’s character should far outweigh their personality Let me explain further. When you initially meet a person if they are interested in you they are going to highlight and show you most if not all of the good things about them. If they are good at that then they have a leg-up on you already. Most people are sold from this point on (see: Love at First Sight) but remember, this is the person’s public side (personality) so it is designed to show off the person’s beauty (which is only skin deep by the way). You have to take the extra time to figure out the “content of this person’s character” (which is to the bone). now this can be hard, because from my own experiences the top three ways to find out a person’s character are unfortunately the last three ways you want to do it: by marriage, by conception of a child, and by moving in with the person. Those three things will GUARANTEE you a person’s character will be exposed but at those levels of commitment it isn’t a practical way to go. So what’s my advice on exposing someone’s character without too much risk? It’s simple. Look at their credit report. It may sound really stupid but think about it (which most people these days DO NOT do). How does the world view people? If you want a bank loan for a house, car, credit card or pretty much anything else do they approve you based on your personality? Hell no!!! They look at your credit score to see how “TRUSTWORTHY” you are and what risk they have of loaning you the money. This applies to relationships as well. First of all if a person can’t pay their bills on time it shows a lack of “RESPONSIBILITY” credit reports will show that. If a person is in debt over their heads and they have “FINANCIAL” problems a credit report will show that as well. And finally if a person doesn’t want you to show you their credit report then it is definitely a sign of “INSECURNESS” or something that they are trying to hide. Now personality alone CANNOT show you how TRUSTWORTHY, RESPONSIBLE, AND FINANCIALLY SECURE a person is, but character can, and what better way to find out these things about a person than their credit report? Now remember if you are planning to spend your life with this person and they are as well then that means that you at least trust each other and if you trust each other then they should have no problem showing you their credit report (and you as well, these conversations go both ways). But that’s just my advice. I’m not Dr. Phil, but when it comes to relationship advice I think I am second to NONE. I don’t tell you what you want to hear, I tell you what you need to hear.

Z.I.