Ah yes we all have been here before. You see him/her walking up from a mile away glowing like a bright star. Their walk: perfect. Their talk: 10/10. Everything about them seems complete and then BAM!! You are hit with the love bug and now you don’t know what to do. Most people call it “Love at First Sight” but I call it “Love Sight, At First”. We all want that Romeo or Juliet but we never want to put in the work to get it. Much like get rich quick programs where false promises are made in the beginning but no decent results in the end you can almost always assure this will happen with love sight at first. Nothing comes easy people. And relationships are no different. I’m not saying that all love sight at first is wrong, but the success/ fail ratio isn’t high enough to justify it for me. Long healthy relationships are usually not based upon as heavily on first impression as it is with compatibility, and how much compatibility can you find out about if you are so mesmerized by their looks within the first 20 minutes of seeing them? Bottom line to this one is this: Rome wasn’t built in a week so don’t expect many results from only doing a week’s worth or homework on your new love craze.
-Z.I.
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